In today’s episode of The MetaBusiness Millennial, I explore what it means to “work like a man” and the impact that has on women in professional spaces. Inspired by a recent article featuring Emmy Award-winning journalist Connie Chung, I dive into her story about overcoming imposter syndrome by convincing herself she was "one of the guys" to succeed in the media industry.
This really resonated with me because, before starting my metaphysical journey, I found myself trying to conform to masculine expectations in the workplace. I changed how I dressed, how I spoke, and even how I thought, all in hopes of fitting in and climbing the ladder. But none of it brought me the success or fulfillment I was seeking. In this episode, I reflect on the personal costs of this experience and how embracing authenticity—rather than masking or assimilating—is the key to real success.
I also answer a listener’s question about what advice I’d give to my younger self about “playing the game” at work. My answer: I would tell her to take her time, trust her inner voice, and never be afraid to speak up for herself. No job or achievement is worth sacrificing who you truly are.
What You’ll Hear:
- Connie Chung’s experience in a male-dominated industry and how she dealt with imposter syndrome by "working like a man."
- My personal journey of trying to fit into masculine work environments and how it impacted my mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
- The broader societal pressures that condition women to act like men to succeed.
- Why it’s essential to break free from the “work like a man” mentality and show up as your true self.
- How listening to your inner voice is a critical tool for navigating challenging work environments and finding your power.
Key Takeaways:
- If you’re feeling the pressure to “work like a man” to succeed, I encourage you to pause and question those expectations.
- The best way to feel secure, safe, and successful in any environment is to show up as your authentic self—no masks, no assimilation.
- For my brothers listening: Reflect on how your expectations might influence the women around you. Are you creating space for them to show up as their true selves?
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